I will start with a heart-touching saying by famous author STEPHEN MEYER that 'it's sad when you can’t make everyone happy, though it’s impossible, at the same time, you still hope, you think, maybe I can do it, but you know you can’t. But Ghosh!, if I had to rely on giving people who they wanted, I would have had to write 40 billion different books and even then I wouldn’t get it right ‘.No doubt, humans are social animals and always need someone who can pamper us, and do all those sorts of things that make you feel wanted and loved. It’s sad but our daily actions are mostly motivated by obtaining other’s approval. At every stage of our life, we try to do all those things through which we can make our loved ones happy so that they also do the same for us and most importantly that they are there with us forever. But does it happen? No, we are not always successful in fulfilling what others want of us. Every one of us faces criticism, rejection, failure, and so on, but we still do it in the hope that maybe one day everything will be okay. If we do a deep introspection of our thoughts, we will realize that we often go overdoing things for others while neglecting ourselves. Of course, helping others is admirable. It is a beautiful thing to see humans caring for one another and putting the needs of others before their own. It is a testament to brotherhood and mankind. But have we ever realized what happens when our selflessness becomes an innate characteristic of ourselves? What happens when you become so compelled to please everyone else that we dismiss your happiness. At times, we all go out of our ways just to maintain friendships, relationships, and to get along with our co-workers. But we need to understand where and when to stop because no matter what we do, no matter how much effort we put in others, No matter how many calls or text messages we make, it doesn’t matter because “YOU CANNOT MAKE EVERYONE HAPPY” and this fact we all have to accept one day. My purpose here is to create negativity or drag you down and neither I’m trying to create a dilemma in your mind that whether you should do such things or not but, but …. It’s really important to understand who’s worthy of it and who is not. In the rush of pleasing others make sure you don’t forget who you are, what you are worthy of, don’t forget to love yourself first, don’t forget to become what you desire to be. Because in the, it’s all about you. WAYNE DYER very well said that “ If you don’t love yourself nobody will. Not only that, you won’t be good at loving anyone else. LOVING STARTS WITH SELF”. It’s important because when you find yourself crying on the bathroom floor whether it's 3 am or 5 in the afternoon, who is gonna be there for you? It’s YOU, you have to pick yourself up and gather the strength to move on. So at the end of the day, you are all you have !!
